0 (especially of a man) gay:
2 a gay person, especially a man
3 to change something so that it does not relate only to one gender, either male or female, or so that it no longer fits traditional ideas about gender or sexuality:
4 to spoil a chance or an opportunity for someone, often intentionally:
She had a queer expression on her face.
The queer community is inclusive and incorporates all these identities.
I find myself infuriated by this attitude of shame and guilt, as do many other queer men I’m sure.